It’s now August. Back-to-school is coming. When you think about the rest of summer, are you a glass-half-full type, or a glass-half-empty?
Rest of Summer: The Glass-Half-Empty Version
A few weeks ago I was all “Oh, summer has flown by, it’s almost over,” when a blogger-friend in the U.K., Victoria at Lylia Rose, left a comment on my Summertime Rainy Day Cheat Sheet post. Her comment amounted to how my timing was perfect, because they were just about to start their summer school holiday.
Their six-week summer school holiday.
And then I realized that I was moping about having ONLY six weeks left to our summer break.
In the past I’ve tended to focus on the half-empty view of the rest of summer. As soon as the Fourth of July hits (and with it, the back-to-school sales), I feel as if summer might as well be done, because back-to-school’s looming approach gets me down.
Rest Of Summer: The Glass Half-Full Version
But this year I don’t have that luxury. With few exceptions, I’ve literally spent the last seven weeks – ALL of my kids’ summer break so far – stuck on the couch with my right foot in a cast, unable to drive anywhere or put any weight on it.
As I draft this post, only a handful of days remain until my next doctor’s appointment. Worst-case scenario, my broken metatarsal will not be healing well, meaning my cast stays on and/or I get a date for foot surgery.
I’m choosing to focus instead on the best-case scenario: my bone has healed enough that I can get my cast off and resume life as Kid-Schlepping Mama Who Can Swim, Sweat, Bike, and Drive.
I’ll have exactly three weeks between that appointment and my kids’ first day of school. Cramming an entire summer of fun into three weeks won’t be easy, but here are my ideas so far for how we can make the most of the rest of summer break.
Max Out The Rest Of Summer: Ten Ideas For Your Bucket List
1. Max out water time
This is our first summer with a family pool pass, and I’ve not been able to swim in our county pool ONCE. We are way overdue for some time at the pool – and not just because water therapy will be a great way to get my right leg back into shape.
If you don’t have ready access to a pool, you can put these water-filled alternatives onto your August calendar instead:
- Beach days – either at the ocean if you’re near the shore, or at the lake if you’re inland
- Backyard wading pool days, if your kiddos are still little. (I remember filling our wading pool and sitting in it for hours on end, while the girls splashed around me.)
- Backyard sprinkler days. (Even these have been off-limits for us, since I can’t get my cast wet and my girls still need assistance and supervision with this process.)
2. Get out of town
Last call for summer vacations! If you and your family haven’t squeezed one in yet, now’s the time.
For us, one of our favorite parts of summer is visiting my mother on her “farm” a few states/a day’s car drive away. (Her side yard includes about an acre of garden space, and her backyard is 20 acres of woods.) The girls love helping her in her garden, just as I did growing up (and still do). We also love jumping into her pool afterward to cool off.
Here’s hoping I’ll be able to drive us there next week, as well as walk through her garden without crutches and hop into her pool!
3. Squeeze in one last camping trip
OK, so realistically that’s not going to happen for us, largely because August 1 marks when my husband, a classroom teacher/chair of his department, starts prepping in earnest for fall semester. (It’s also a month with many weekend bike rides, which I’d be doing if not for my foot. And we just wouldn’t go on a camping weekend without Daddy.)
But that doesn’t rule out the girls “camping” on our property. They’ve been begging to pitch a tent in our yard since before school let out last spring. If I’m cast-free in a few days, I think this would be a great way to celebrate the end of summer. I might even grab a sleeping mat and join them!
4. Hit the park
Or as many as you can. There’s a neighborhood park barely a half-mile from our house, and I haven’t been able to take the girls there – or to the bigger park a mile away – or to the fancy large new community park a short drive from our house.
No time like the present to cram in as many more park trips as you (and we) can before school resumes.
5. Dine al fresco
That is, have a picnic. Or three, or five. On their own, or in conjunction with any of ideas #1-4.
So far we’ve managed a few front-yard picnics, and a few after swim lessons on the days my mother was visiting and drove them to/from their lessons. (Unlike my husband, she didn’t have to dash home with them and then head into work).
We’re also overdue for a summertime meal on our back porch – partly because the summer heat/humidity around here aren’t very cast-friendly. (If you’ve never worn a cast during a hot and humid summer, trust me: getting all hot and sweaty with a cast on is not the best idea.)
6. Go on a field trip or two
Thanks to my driving ban, I’ve yet to take my kids to the library this summer. Or to any local museums (in fact, our family memberships have all expired over the summer). Or to a game at our local minor-league ballpark.
With three weeks left, it’s high time we make some of these summer memories, while we still can.
7. Make one last round of s’mores and/or ice cream.
Not going camping yet means no s’mores over the campfire. And no camping trips with the ice-cream ball that my MIL bought the girls last summer.
Fortunately, the ice-cream ball will work in our yard, once I can excavate it from our camping gear. And while it’s not the same as doing it over a campfire, there are other ways to make s’mores, from charcoal chimney starters to solar ovens.
8. Clear out last school year’s rubble
I broke my foot days after Kimmie dumped a mountain of last year’s schoolbooks, worksheets, etc. in our front hall. I haven’t even peeked in her school backpack since then, let alone tried to deal with this pile.
When it’s hard to get around your own house, clutter has a nasty way of piling up. It’s all I can do to keep the kitchen counters clean/laundry caught up, and stay on top of the kids’ putting away their toys.
But going through “last year” together is more than a great way to spend time together. It’s also a good mental exercise that will subtly help the girls put “last year” to bed, and start gearing up for “this year.”
9. Prep/shop for this fall
As soon as we’re done putting last year to bed, we can get out this year’s supplies.
Step One is what Amy Suardi, former blogger at Frugal Mama, used to call “shopping at home.” Get out all relevant office supplies you have kicking around your house, spread them on a table, give each kid a copy of their school supply list, and have them “shop” from what you already own.
If this isn’t your first back-to-school rodeo with school-age kids in the U.S. public school system, you’ve probably already shopped ahead at last year’s clearance sales anyway, and/or otherwise have extras kicking around from last year.
If your go-to stash is skimpy, that’s OK. Overall, your best bet for rock-bottom prices is in the weeks right before school start.
Oh, and it’s also time to think about swapping over the girls’ clothes to their fall wardrobe, and seeing what holes exist before our local kids’ resale pop-up event season begins next month. I always wait to buy their clothes there, because it’s SO much more reasonably priced!
10. Plan/attend an end-of-summer celebration
Celebrating the end of summer can help you and your kiddos relive all the fun you’ve had. (And gear up for the new season ahead.)
- Plan a special meal – then let your kids help you cook it, and/or help THEM do the prep and cooking.
- Go out for a special dinner (this doesn’t have to break the bank; my kids think going out to Friendly’s or a fast-food restaurant is “special” because we almost never do it.)
- Have a cookout for your family, and/or neighbors and friends.
- Attend a community celebration. Our neighborhood always hosts a corn roast in our local park at the end of August. Maybe yours has a parade, music festival, film festival, or Heritage Days celebration still coming up in August.
- Visit a local, county, or state agricultural fair or other outdoor summertime event with your kids. If it’s an option, help them to enter some of their artwork, pet animals, vegetables they’ve grown, etc. in the appropriate contests, then watch them beam with pride as they rack up the ribbons and premium money. Check here to find a fair near your corner of the world.
Here’s hoping my cast comes off – and even if it doesn’t, that we can max out the rest of summer.
What are your plans to make the most of the rest of summer for YOUR family?
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What a great list. Actually here in India we have holidays in may and June. Except camping we did all the activities. And it was so much fun.
Aww, so fun that you got them almost all in! 🙂
Thanks for the suggestions, it’s really hot in my country here. To be honest I’m really not going out much, just working from home but i absolutely love the tips you give.
So glad you like them! We have been having some extreme heat here, too, on and off, which makes trips to someplace like a pool/lake/ocean critical! 🙂
Oh how it must suck to be stuck in a foot cast all summer! Hope you’re back on your feet soon. But these are some great ideas to make the best out of summer!
Agreed, on both counts! 🙂
I hope you heal up well! I know for the last weeks of summer my husband and I have a lot of water activities planned! I’m pretty excited.
We are headed to my mama’s pool next week for some much-needed R&R before school resumes ;)…
Wow so many summer ideas here! I love summer so much and there is still too many things that I haven’t done yet!
That’s about how we feel too!
Another round of Smores’ for me for sure!!! I love camping and Smores obviously lol…Two more rounds…
We were supposed to camp again with friends this weekend, only my friend’s hubby hurt his foot and is in a boot – so hanging out in the AC instead, but gonna try to do some backyard s’mores anyway 🙂
We literally have 4 days left of summer break, including today which the rest of will be spent at the school. I am on PTO so I need to be there to sell my yearbooks for the Meet the Teacher even tonight. My boys asked me today about camping in the back yard, but it’s a high of 97F today… that won’t be happening for a few months here!
Ugh, I know what you mean re:the heat and yard camping – that has been one of our deterrents (but not the only one)…Maybe fall break?
Great list! I think these are super healing suggestions. I liked reading the post.
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Wow what a list . I am gonna use maximum time in water tip 🙂
Oh my goodness YES, so long as you’re not in a place with water restrictions – that is my girls’ favorite, hands-down! 🙂
I love your post! it is definitely getting hot in where I live, I just plan on staying in the pool to keep me cool, definitely also a lot of ice cream eating involved!
So glad you enjoyed it! Have fun enjoying your ice cream/pool time, too! We now have the half-and-half in our fridge to make ice cream one of these nights soon in our ice cream ball 🙂
Oh no, sorry to hear you’ve been stuck on the couch so much! How frustrating! Sounds like you have a busy last few weeks planned though, I hope they’re going well 🙂
Well, the bad news is the cast has to stay on through this month at least, so the girls will be back to school before it comes off 🙁 – but we’re attacking the list anyway, with some help from my husband. Did TWO field trips last weekend (#6), have a good start on #8-9, and have done #1 with a hose in the front yard so far. 🙂
That is rough! Awesome list! Good luck on your foot appointment. Hope you get the best news!
Thanks so much – me too! 🙂
We also have a huge pile of last year’s school stuff for each kid still just sitting there. Usually once they’ve started the next school year I get rid of it. Whoops!
What a bummer that you’ve been unable to drive/swim/etc with your broken foot. I hope you cram as much summer fun as possible into the last few weeks!
Yeah, my plan is for most of it to magically disappear, too – but I figured I’d see if Essie wants any of the half-completed worksheets and workbooks to “practice” in. (She loves to finish her older sister’s schoolwork.) Thanks for your optimistic wishes on the rest of summer, too – we’re hoping to knock off the whole list one way or another 🙂
Interesting list. Get out of town is really great – we are a part of beautiful nature.
Agreed! We are off on two more back-to-back road trips starting in an hour! 🙂
In my country summer is heated up. Its around 45degrees. We have to plan all indoor activities with the kids and can take out kids in evening. I loved reading the post. thanks for sharing.
You’re welcome! Parts of the United States are getting to be that way, too (110-120 degrees F) – this summer at least – while I’m glad that’s not the case where we live yet, it might as well have been that way for all the time I could spend outside this summer…
We are definitely maxing out water play! We haven’t been to the beach yet but we are very much enjoying splash pads.
Ooh, splash pads! – THAT’s something I forgot! Definitely add that to the list, for anyone in enough of an urban area to have more access to them than we do! 🙂
Ugh that’s a bummer! Hope you heal soon and thanks for all the suggestions. I love smores and back to school shopping!!
*Thanks* – me too, re: both the healing AND the s’mores! 🙂
We have yet to make it to the beach! that’s a must do!
🙂 – at least in our case, we’ve had so many rainy days that I can pretend we haven’t been out swimming much yet for THAT reason 🙂
Oh wow – I couldn’t even imagine a summer on the couch! You guys probably have lots of downtime to play games and watch movies but I agree, getting outside whether it be water play, camping, an event – all much better ideas! Good luck at your next appointment – hope you can make the next 6 weeks fun no matter how it turns out!
*Thanks* – yeah, the girls are getting rather tired of being confined to the living room with me! You can only watch movies and play the same board games so many times…