Lessons in Parenting

Good-Enough Parenting for the 21st Century

What will really happen to your family if you decide to "settle" for good-enough parenting? The answers may surprise you.

Be honest, now: Do you try to be the “perfect parent”? Or are you OK with just “good-enough parenting”? That phrase – “good enough parenting” – is honestly something that just popped into my brain a little while ago. Once again, it is way too late and I am finding time to write ONLY BECAUSE …

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Holiday Gift Ideas for Neurodiverse Children

Got kiddo(s) with a learning difference or two? These holiday gift ideas for neurodiverse children are kid- AND Mama-approved as worth reading.

Great Books for Kids with Learning Differences (and those without!) With the holiday gift-giving season approaching, many of us may be thinking about the perfect gift ideas for our kiddos. And now that we have two kiddos in our house whose brains are wired differently than the average child’s – one of whom is “2E” …

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Get Your Child To Open Up: Strategies That Work

Struggling to get your child to open up to you? Wondering how to get your kids to talk to you more? These proven strategies will help.

How To Get Your Kid To Talk To You More: I’ve often thought that when a child is born, every parent should automatically get a few bonus upgrades to themselves. Tops on the list is one extra hand per child – how many times, busy Mamas, have you literally wished you have two or three …

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The Busy Mom’s Guide to School Halloween Party Ideas

Whether it's your first or your 10th time as class parent, you NEED these school Halloween party ideas. Includes FREE Fall Bingo printable!

How to Throw a Kid-Friendly School Halloween Party: Congratulations! You’re now a homeroom parent! For the first time! Which means you get to plan your kiddos’ school parties. Starting with the Halloween party (or Harvest Party, if that’s what your district prefers). Meaning you need to come up with a bunch of kid-friendly school Halloween …

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Fun Family Ideas For Building Memories Over the Holidays

With a little intentionality, building memories for your children over your next holiday break is easier than you might think. These tips will get you started.

Easy Tips for Building Memories Over Your Next Holiday Weekend: If you live in the United States or Canada, there’s a good chance your kids got a day off from school today, whether for Columbus Day, Indigenous Peoples’ Day, or Thanksgiving. Did you do anything special to mark this holiday weekend with them? Whatever the …

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DIY Moving vs Hiring a Local Mover

Have a big event (or a new house) just across town? Which is better, DIYing the move or hiring a local mover? This post will help you choose.

Are you planning a huge event for your local school, house of worship, or volunteer organization? dealing with the aftermath of an unexpected homeowner’s claim? about to move cross-town? looking at buying or inheriting a new-to-you, gently-loved piano for your budding musician?? These are all situations when you might be tempted to go it alone …

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Your Ultimate Guide to Back-To-Work Childcare Options

For those of us living in the United States, good back to work childcare options can be hard to find. This comprehensive guide covers all your choices.

How to Choose the Right Childcare for Your Family When Returning To Work: Congratulations! You’re a new parent! And … you’re headed back to work soon. (Ugh.) Moreover, if you’re like most of my readers, you live in the United States – the only major industrialized nation without guaranteed paid parental leave. Which means you’re …

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Can Taglines Help Teach Your Child Values?

It's hard to teach your child values amid the noisy backdrop and short attention spans of 21st-century life. Here's how crafting a family tagline can help.

Want your child to grow up with good values? Here’s where to start: In our fast-paced 21st-century existence, everyone’s attention span is getting ever-shorter. As parents, unless you constantly remove distractions from your kiddos’ lives (television, electronics, etc.), you’ll be competing for their attention at every turn. Starting as soon as they begin to play …

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What To Do When Your Kid Locks You Out

Do you have a plan in place for when your kid locks you out? If not, you need to! This post will give you tips to help deal with (and even avoid) this problem.

Your Plan Of Action For When Your Child Locks The Door (Literally!): Anyone who thinks kids aren’t fascinated by door locks either doesn’t have kids, or hasn’t met every kid I know: At first, pushing that shiny button is the “let’s see what this does?” curiosity of a toddler. When your kid hits preschool age, …

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Stressed Out New Mom? Read This:

No, it's not just you - becoming a parent is super-stressful! If you're a stressed-out new mom (or dad), these tips should help.

Becoming a parent for the first time changes you. For many of us, it’s the most wonderful thing that’s ever happened to us – eventually. But those first couple of months can be pure torture. It’s hard to fully appreciate how wonderful parenthood is when you’re exhausted and don’t have a moment to yourself. If …

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I Think My Kid Has A Learning Disability – Now What?

What do you do if you suspect your kid has a learning disability - now what? This quick-start guide offers parents practical, actionable steps to follow.

Does My Child Have A Learning Disability/Difference? A Step-By-Step Guide For Parents Ah, the joys of going back to school! New Supplies! New friends! And, if you’re a work-at-home mama, more sleep because you’re no longer trying to cram in all those work hours after your kids’ bedtime (as I am while drafting this)! But …

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Should You Read Little House On The Prairie Books With Your Kids?

Have you read these classics with your kids yet? Here's what parents need to know BEFORE they read Little House on the Prairie books with their kids.

I have a confession to make: I was born in the 1970s. When I was growing up, the Little House On The Prairie TV series was in its first run. It was still on the air the Christmas I turned five, when I received my very own 9-volume boxed set of Laura Ingalls Wilder’s classic …

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Managing Life in the Sandwich Generation

Taking care of older parents and young kids at the same time is no picnic. This post has practical tips for managing life in the sandwich generation.

Your Quick-Start Guide to Helping Elderly Relatives: Sometimes it creeps up on us slowly. Sometimes there’s a crisis – one parent’s death, or a serious diagnosis – that makes it clear: Our parents aren’t getting any younger. And as they age, they may need more help from their adult children in taking care of themselves. …

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Does Your Bedtime Routine Need A Reboot?

Does your personal bedtime routine need a reboot? Grownups need bedtime routines, too, you know. Here's why, and how to give yours a makeover.

Why Grownups Need Bedtime Routines Too: As parents, we spend a lot more time than we’d care to admit to worrying about our kids’ bedtime routines. When they’re babies, we can’t wait for a routine. We look forward to them going to bed at the same time every day and sleeping through the night, because …

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Sneaky Ways to Keep Your Child Learning All Summer Long

Want to keep your child learning all summer long? As a former teacher married to a teacher, we have this one down; our tips will show you easy it can be.

Do you worry about the summer slide? It’s hard for the average kid not to lose ground academically over the long summer break. Add in a learning difference or two, and summer can become a real threat to your child’s academic progress in the upcoming school year. What’s a parent to do? Slipping learning activities …

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Why Clean Air At Home Matters

Why does having clean air at home matter for you and your family? Learn about both the risks of indoor air pollution, and what you can do about them!

Clean Air Is Literally A Life-And-Death Issue: Those of you who’ve read my previous posts on the importance of making sure your home’s air isn’t making you sick, by keeping allergens at bay and otherwise keeping your indoor air healthy, know this is a top priority for me. But have you ever wondered why clean air at …

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The Ultimate Family Game Room Quick-Start Guide

Want to know where your tweens/teens are on weekends? Set up the ultimate family game room in that unused room, and you know they'll all be at your place.

Creating A Game Room For Your Kids: Do you have an extra room in your house that hasn’t yet found its purpose in life? Maybe it’s the finished area of your basement. Maybe it was going to be your spare bedroom, but never quite got there. Either way, I bet it’s currently filled with all …

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Summer Boredom Busters: Your Go-To Cheat Sheet

How do you prepare for the inevitable summer days when your kids moan, "I'm bored!"? What you need is the ideas in this post for summer boredom busters.

Quick & Easy Ideas to Banish Summer Boredom: How will your kids spend their summer? Mine have a good mix of camp, music and swim lessons, and family adventures lined up. But there will come a time for every family – some sooner, some later – when your kids utter those two dreaded words: “I’m …

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This Summer, Help Your Child Do Better In Math

Is your child a math whiz, or is math a struggle for them? Here are three practical down-to-earth tips to help your child do better in math, starting now.

It’s hard to escape math in our day-to-day lives. Whether you’re trying to pay bills, balance your budget, or saving up for your next family vacation, you need math to help you get there. Still, though, plenty of kids struggle in math in school. Whether your child struggles with math, or solves math problems “for fun,” …

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